Suppression: Key To A Happy Life

It always happens in droves.

You're doing well, mostly. Your brain hasn't yet attempted to plague you with the past.

Therapy only stirred the faint echoes into full-bodied roars of all the things you did wrong or bad, flipping back through all the people you've hurt in your mental Rolodex of self-hatred.

It's an addiction.

You quit smoking and drinking and partying and sleeping around, but you can never run from your head. It stays with you.

You don't think about the guilt when your conscience is coated in a viscous, organic layer that moves with you. It's a second skin you never shed.

You don't think about your mind paying itself back once you've settled down and been a good, law-abiding and helpful human being.

Instead it just plagues you. 

Maybe it's a sign. Maybe it's a beckoning to tempt you back into your former ways.

Or maybe you're just, finally, growing up and your mind is trying to atone for what it's done.

To go back and ask forgiveness would be unbearable. Unbearable and selfish, really.

You did what you did. You're living with it.

They've probably moved on. 

Except that one guy. He was crazier than you are. He still hates you like he just caught you in bed with another guy, even though you didn't say you were back together with him. He just assumed it in his distorted little mind.

Okay, maybe that other guy, too. Oh, and that one…

Stop.

Life is a bitch and you wielded the sword that severed more than you intended. But you're not that person anymore.

Right?

You aren't cold. In fact, you're so warm that the thought of not seeing your husband's handsome smile crack across his bearded face is chilling. Tears pool at the thought of not getting a tight squeeze from your beautiful daughters every morning as they wake you far earlier than anyone should ever wake.

You couldn't give that up. Nothing would ever be worth it.

If you were a religious person, you'd think you had a devil in you or something. But you don't. You don't believe in that.

Maybe you just don't want to.

Maybe it's this undiagnosed problem you have. This issue that seems to ferment when left unattended.

Or maybe, just maybe, it's all still inside you, fresh and untampered by time.

Waiting for you to crawl back into it's warm and familiar embrace like the weak woman you really are.

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